A Lesson of Kindness

Raquel Fernandez AlvaradoFebruary 27, 2024Finding MeaningHelping Hands
A Lesson of Kindness

Artwork by Arina Stetsiuk, age 14, Ukraine

In a world that often feels like everything moves so fast, finding meaning can be a challenge.

We have busy lives and it’s easy to forget the power of lending a helping hand. Sometimes, a small act of kindness can make a big difference. I learned this through a special experience that showed me the true meaning of giving.

Last summer, I decided to join a club whose purpose was to help elderly people in our town. Many of them lived alone and needed assistance with everyday tasks such as cleaning their houses, doing the shopping for the week, or even taking a shower. I thought it would be a great opportunity to help our citizens of the town and also it would be a great experience to learn something different.

On my first visit, I met Mrs. Emily Jones, a sweet elderly lady with a warm smile and bright eyes. She welcomed me into her home, and we sat down for a relaxed conversation without expectations. While she was speaking, I learned about aspects of her life, like the many different experiences she had overcome and the challenges she faced day after day.

One thing that surprised me was her passionate love of gardening and knowledge of rare facts about plants. Her garden was filled with vibrant flowers of as many colors as you can imagine, and the grass was perfectly cut. However, due to her limitations, the bushes that were at a certain height were in bad condition, because she couldn’t get to them. I thought it would be an opportunity to make a big difference in her life.

Over the next few weeks, I visited Mrs. Emily Jones regularly. We spent our time taking care of her garden, and I could see how her life was changing. Little by little her eyes started to shine as she watched her garden come back to life, and while I was cutting the damaged plants, she told me stories of the different types of flowers she had grown over the years. I was very entertained and I started to like spending time with her.

I discovered a lot of things about her life. For instance, she told me what she was like when she was my age, describing herself as a cheerful and curious girl. Also, she explained how her hobby of gardening started when she was only five years old and she planted a little seed in a bottle and turned it into a big plant. However, her family didn’t have too many resources, so she couldn’t have a garden at her house back then.

Through this experience, I realized the true impact we can have on someone’s life through simple acts of kindness. It wasn’t just about gardening, it was about being there for Mrs. Emily Jones, offering support, and sharing our days. I saw firsthand how a small act could bring so much meaning to someone else’s life.

Emily Jones, offering support, and sharing our days. I saw firsthand how a small act could bring so much meaning to someone else’s life.

As the days went by, I noticed a change in Mrs. Emily. She seemed happier, more lively and even a bit more energetic. It was clear that our time together had a positive impact on her health. And in turn, it had a very great impact on me.

I learned the importance of empathy and understanding. This work with the elderly is not just about helping with physical tasks, it’s about being present, listening and spending your time with others to show you care about them. It’s about recognizing the value that comes with age and appreciating the stories and experiences that our elderly people have to share with us.

I also gained and discovered an appreciation for the simple pleasures in life. Watching the flowers grow and, most importantly for me, seeing Mrs. Emily Jones’s face light up, brought me a sense of fulfillment and happiness that I hadn’t expected before. It taught me that true meaning can be found in the small everyday moments we share with others.

As I reflect on this experience, I am reminded of the importance of helping those in need, especially our elderly neighbors who may feel lonely and without purpose in life. A small act of kindness, whether it’s helping with work, spending time together, or simply offering a listening ear, can make a world of difference.

So I encourage you to take a moment to consider how you can make a positive impact in the lives of others, especially our elderly community members. It doesn’t have to be a big gesture, any act you do to help others will be perfect and the person will appreciate it, because you can bring meaning and joy to someone’s day with any type of help.

In the end, when we are ready to lend a hand, we realize how important it is. It affects both the person helping and the one receiving help. This makes us part of a big story of kindness, helping, and connecting with others. It makes our lives and the lives of others better.

Raquel Fernandez Alvarado is a 15-year-old from Madrid, Spain. Raquel enjoys playing soccer and reading books, and dreams of being a police officer one day.